In darkened rooms
with curtains pulled
to banish day,
we welcome gloom,
unaware of gaps
allowing rays
to bathe our eyes –
sadness consoles grievers,
a blessing in disguise.
Kim M. Russell, 2017
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My response to dVerse Poets Pub Poetics – Blessings
Paul tells us that he has been reading Anam Cara by the Irish poet/philosopher John O’Donohue, and in it are a number of very moving and profound Blessing poems. He says he finds this form to be enormously uplifting and with the world being what it is today, h thinks offering up a wave of Blessings from our collective poets mind can’t be a bad thing. He has given us two examples: one by John O’Donohue and the other by James Wright.
Paul asks us to put pen to paper and write a Blessing with the hope that our words create ripples in the pond of the world.
A deeply poignant piece Kim. Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks Paul!
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The thought of such a blessing in disguise… indeed we need to mourn, and tears can soothe… and then one day we can let in the light again
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I’ve just started to read a book called Grief Works – I’m hoping it will be helpful.
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Let us know if the book Grief Works works. I could use it.
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I’ve read the introduction and the first ‘grief story’ in the section about losing a partner. So far it’s interesting. I’m reading the sections in order so I won’t get to the section about losing a parent for a while. The strange thing is that I wrote the poem before I downloaded the book to my Kindle. It was recommended by a grief counsellor.
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It makes sense that sadness is a blessing in disguise.
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The sadness is a blessing as is the darkness to allow us to embrace it.
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To honour your own feelings is always a blessing and a step towards healing. A very poignant write Kim. Sending love and hugs xxx
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Thank you Xenia 🌹🌹🌹
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:o) xxx
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Nice–someone else who dabbles in the edge of darkness. You had me at /welcoming gloom/. I agree sometimes a tragedy is growth, a new direction, a new journey. But too often titanic grief settles into the tissues of the heart, burrows deep, and never vacates; that’s when the blessing leads us astray.
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So true, Glenn.
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This may be brief, but it’s very evocative. I agree with Glenn, sadness and grief are a blessing, but not meant to be a permanent resting place.
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I agree. It’s unhealthy to drown in grief.
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The ability to see grief and sadness as a blessing is a gift indeed, one we need to learn, to cultivate. Since there are a number of us who have lost a mother in recent months, this is all the more meaningful.
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I like your different take on blessing. Sadness does help, but isn’t that strange? Emotions are baffling.
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I think the tears of sadness stop the grief from setting in our souls.
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Touching write Kim ~ Yes I agree with you:
sadness consoles grievers,
a blessing in disguise.
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Lovely write and may there be rays to bathe your eyes with healing, my friend! Hope you are mending 🙂
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Thank you, Jilly 😊
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Grief is a blessing in disguise, such a very powerful statement!
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Thank you, Walter.
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A truth close to where I’m at. Thanks for this.
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Short and to the point..very true, Kim, and the dark takes many.
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Yes….we need that space and time…beautiful!
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This feels like being swaddled in dark velvet.
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Thank you, Misky!
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Sometimes we don’t know what’s good for us. Thankfully, nature is always there to try and fond a way.
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It’s when we don’t let the tears fall that the sorrow can sometimes take up permanent residence. Tenderly written, Kim.
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Thanks Gayle 🙂
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‘allowing rays to bathe our eyes.’ wow!
this poem just feels comforting.
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Thank you Stacy Lynn!
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Marvelous! 🌹🌹🌹
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